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CHECKLIST: IDENTITY ENGAGEMENT INVENTORY
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The Mentor's Identity Formation Inventory

​This is when the student has suspicions verified, that the student accurately was picking up real cues.  To overcome the hurdles associated with this stage, help the student to:
  • Bring in role models
  • Develop a growth mindset (metacognition)
  • Affirm authentic values (true to oneself)
  • Uncover an authentic sense of purpose

The key moment = when their grades begin to suffer and they reveal an “academic slide”

This is where a student is suspicious or not trusting.  To overcome this tendency is to help the student:
  • Shift the focus from one’s self to the situation (overcome the fundamental attribution error).  This involves attributional retraining.  It’s not that I’m stupid; it’s just that the situation is difficult (normal stress)
  • Normalize difficult situations by showing that ALL students experience adjusting
  • Off a “growth mindset”

The Five Situations:
  • The Inner Situation—a student’s inner life
  • The Intimate Situation—where unvarnished experiences are shared
  • The Local Situation—the entities through which a student participates routinely
  • The Peripheral Situation—the environments that affect a student indirectly
  • On-line Situation
  • Other


Identity Formation: Identify any of the relevant conditions and events:
  • Patterns of being on guard (vigilance)
  • Accumulated Stress—from a constant state of being on guard
  • Marker Events—perceived and actual threats
  • Resilience—examples of bouncing back from being knocked down
  • Accumulated levels of stress and exhaustion (perceived ACE’s)—accumulated


Identity Influencers: Identify the roads and their on-ramps (approaches) that play a role in identity formation
  • Direct— Mindsets (fixed), inner and core values, and perceptions of belonging.
  • Environmental (indirect influences)
  • Groups (peer, formal, informal, etc.)


Approaches.   Identify the most promising “approaches” to change.  To make this more vivid, think channels that connect intentions with results:
  • Role Models and Mentors (the conventional approach)
  • Social and Emotional Interventions (needs on-line tech support)
  • Groups to Join (group approaches)
  • Situational (Time and Place)
RETURN TO HOMEPAGE
Identity Engagement Theory
Aurelio and His Mentors Story
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  • ABOUT US
    • Clint's Journey to Eldership
    • New Way of Understanding: Uncovering What's in Plain Sight >
      • TOC/Mentoring Birth >
        • TOC Primer
  • OFFERINGS
  • VIRTUAL GROUP MENTORING
    • Benefits -- Detailed
    • Fees -- Group Mentoring
  • MENTOR-AS-CHANGEMAKER
    • Origin Story: Silicon Valley Pilots
    • Summary of Workshop Sessions >
      • Who are changemakers
    • Mentor Fees
  • HOW TO WORK ACROSS THE GENERATIONS
    • Climate Change Dialogue
    • On the Power of Multi-generational Teamwork >
      • Special Qualities of Older Folks >
        • Tacit Knowledge/Experience
        • Resilience
        • Creativity/Experience
        • Even-Mindedness/Experience
        • Wisdom/Experience
        • Eulogy Virtues/Experience
      • Four Qualities of Youth >
        • Skeptical & Naive
        • Conservative & Progressive
        • Skillful & Awkward
        • Social & Private
  • BASIC MENTORING RESOURCES
    • Catalogue -- Various Kinds of Mentoring
    • Classical Roots of Mentoring
    • Appreciating the Mentor's Dilemma
    • Desired Outcomes
  • ADVANCED RESOURCES
    • Aurelio's Story >
      • Worksheet: The Kinds of Mentoring Aurelio Received
      • Worksheet -- Making the Map Inventory
      • The Map Checklist
      • Worksheets - Minding the Gaps Inventory
      • Identity Engagement Theory >
        • Identity Engagement Checklist
        • How Identity Engagement Theory Applies to Aurelio
    • Academic Perspectives
  • CONTACT
    • Our Shop